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    Breaking the Silence: Why My Family Addressed Racial Trauma

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    Exploring Family Trauma and Silence in Sikeston, Missouri: A Journey of Healing and Understanding

    Three generations of a family found themselves standing in a cotton field, 150 miles away from home, reflecting on their own past and the history of racial violence that has plagued their community. The journalist in the family had been working on a documentary film and podcast called “Silence in Sikeston,” which explored the impact of racism on health in the Missouri city.

    As they walked through the soggy cotton field, memories and stories began to surface. The family had kept secrets about their own past, including the story of a great-uncle who had been killed by police in 1946. This revelation sparked difficult but necessary conversations about the trauma that had been passed down through generations.

    The family’s trip to the cotton field opened the door to a deeper understanding of their own history and the silence that had surrounded it. They realized the importance of breaking that silence and confronting the pain that had been carried for so long.

    As they met with other families in Sikeston who had also experienced racial violence, they shared their stories and found common ground. The journalist’s father spoke about his great-uncle, ensuring that his name would not be forgotten.

    The family’s journey to the cotton field was not just a physical one, but a symbolic one as well. It was a step towards healing and understanding, a recognition of the past and a commitment to breaking the cycle of silence.

    The “Silence in Sikeston” project shed light on the intergenerational trauma caused by racism and the importance of speaking out and sharing stories. By confronting their own history and connecting with others who had similar experiences, the family found a sense of solidarity and a renewed sense of purpose in telling their stories.

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